Hold hands. Please bring your touch of restoration and healing. While it may be technically true due to health issues, it’s not your place to say it. Of course, you should mean what you say! Just say something. The dog is 13 years old and it's sick. Regardless of the circumstances, sending a card to express your condolences when someone has lost a pet will be appreciated. Offer to watch the kids or walk the dog. “[It] was really old/sick so it’s probably for the best.” This is just as offensive to say about pets as it is to say about elderly or ill humans. I feel badly for my friend but have no idea what to say to let him know I care. Remember, each person is different, and hearing other people's stories may scare your friend or loved one. Go to appointments. Listen. “There should be a bowl by the pump” said the man. It's time for it to go. I have (and have always had) a hard time showing sympathy. When they were full, he and the dog walked back toward the man Ask them what you can do to help them and if you ( and the people who's dog is dying) believe in prayer, tell them you will pray for them. I have a friend whose dog is probably going to be put to sleep today or die naturally within the next week I would guess. ? Also, try to be comfortable with silence: Don’t try to fill blank space with chatter about yourself, she said. The worst part about owning a dog is having to say goodbye, and that goodbye often feels far too soon. Choose positive, hopeful words, but don't give people false hope or talk about other people's cancer outcomes. One of the best things you can say is, “Just tell me if you want me to leave or stop asking—you can’t offend me!” Winawer suggested. The traveler said, gesturing to the dog. Take away any pain and come whisper your love to him/her. Forever. A dog can be just like a family member to some people so, you should consider giving your condolences to the family like you would if they had a love one dying. Discover and share Inspirational Quotes On Sick Dogs. I ask that you would be beside him/her. Check in with them from time to time to see if there is anything you can do and let them know you are thinking of them. Prayer for a sick dog Father, Thank you for giving me this wonderful dog. What should I say? Sending A Condolence Card When A Pet Has Died. They went through the gate, and sure enough, there was an old fashioned hand pump with a bowl beside it. And Four Things You Can Always Say… A good vet can really help you with saying goodbye to your dog, by providing a professional understanding presence, with guidance and empathy. Say that you are really sorry for their situation. Deceased dog = That jerk Jimmy I thought was my friend. Either way is okay, and don’t press people who don’t seem ready to talk about it. He/she is a faithful friend who has brought such companionship, joy and contentment into my life. Explore our collection of motivational and famous quotes by authors you know and love. The traveler filled the bowl and took a long drink, then gave some to the dog. Deliver meals. So at the risk of offending some well-meaning people, here are Six Things You Should Never Say to a Friend (or Relative or Colleague) Who’s Sick. Be with us Lord.